It is a sad incident~happened on last Saturday to my dad's supplier's driver. He is an Indian uncle, he had be the driver for a long time and we have build up a kind of relationship., not counted as close, but he is still counted as our friend,perhaps?
Usually he send the stocks on every Wednesday and Saturday, early morning around 9am when we go to dad's store, he will be there waiting to unload the stocks. On last Saturday, when we reached, we didn't see his lorry, and at around 12sth mum started to feel weird and called him, his wife answered the call, mum asked why till now the stock still haven't reach yet? His wife answered " Sudah tak dapat mari, suami saya meninggal dunia~" Mum was in shocked and she started to get panic too and asked what happened. The auntie said it was an accident, a drunk Indian guy crash on the lorry and her husband turn the lorry to his side and then he died... His wife kept on crying... And all in a sudden, we all remain silent and everyone still in shock couldn't believe that he just left like this.
I couldn't say anything~ Sister keep on repeating the same sentence which is "Really can't accept..so sudden"...and mum said last few days the uncle just dyed his hair and last few days when they unloading the stocks, he still playing around with his wife, he was a friendly and funny uncle. He knew to speak in Cantonese and obviously we all can see he loved his wife so much. I walked to the store alone and started to recall back everytime he talked to me and everytime he helped us to fix our house's stuffs like our windows and also the roof & etc...
It's a bad morning... Dad was in shock too.. he is a lorry driver too.I can feel that he is in worry and of course he feels afraid.
Until now, I'm still feeling so unacceptable someone leave like this... I couldn't see him for the last time...How is his wife going to live without him~ hmmm...When I told people about this, people seem like didn't have much feeling, maybe they don't know him that's why they have not much of respond. But for me, it's really feeling so bad when you heard that someone around you passed away without any sign.
and yea~Life is always unexpected and we really can't predict what is going to happen the next second, next minute... Please do appreciate every moment you have with the one you love, especially your family. And appreciate every moment you are breathing.... cherish everything you're doing right now. Don't leave any regrets in your life.
Living & breathing is the best gift ever no matter how bad is the predicament you're facing now. Smile and pass through everything bravely & toughly, you'll realize things aren't that hard as you thought..
R.I.P Driver Uncle~ You're always in my mind.
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